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PAIGNTON ROUND ROBIN (WHAT A TRIP!)

Round Robin poster with steam train

Round Robin poster with steam train

Oh me. Oh my. Ever had one of those day trips which you hope will nevveerrrr end? If you haven’t, then you’re in for a real treat. Take a curtesy, take a bow, hog the stage, the ‘Paignton Round Robin’.

Paignton is a seaside town located on the English Riviera. Why yes, we do have our own Riviera. In this case, the banner of the English Riviera encompasses the seaside resorts of Torbay, Torquay, Paignton, and Brixham.

If you have a ‘real’ camera -v- your phone, I highly recommend packing it for this goodie. 

WHAT THE HELL IS A ‘ROUND ROBIN?’

Well, I’m glad you’ve asked. It’s a sequence or series of events. In travel that could be a type of itinerary that involves multiple destinations in a circular or looped route. In this case, it also includes a variety of fun and fabulous modes of transport. Woohoo. Firstly it’s the old ‘slam-door’ trains with lovely carriages pulled by a steam train. Think of Harry Potter and the Hogwarts Express (though for that particular ride, you need to go to Scotland). Next, it’s a wee ferry. Followed by a 90-minute boat cruise. Finally, it’s an open top bus. All Aboard. Sorry, sorry, getting a bit carried away. I know I hide it well on how much I love this trip! Right, calm down JB.

PAIGNTON – LET’S START AT THE BEGINNING

Au contraire. Although I’m starting this day trip adventure from Paignton a la Paignton Round Robin. You can, as befits a ‘Round Robin’ loop, also begin your journey at Dartmouth or Totnes.

I’ve chosen Paignton as the starting point because I love the ramped up excitement (but that might just be me!) of travelling this way with regard to hopping on the steam train first and having the boat cruise to look forward to.

So this itinerary will be:

Paignton – Kingswear = steam train / Kingswear – Dartmouth = ferry / Dartmouth – Totnes = boat cruise / Totnes – Paignton = open top bus*

*open top bus, is dependent on the good ‘ole Brit weather and operational requirements.

TICKETS

The Round Robin runs on selected dates from April to October. The fare of £36 gets you a 20-25 minute steam train ride, a 5 minute ferry crossing, a 90 minute boat cruise plus a 20-30 minute bus ride. Oh yeah baby!

Fess up I’ve always rocked up and bought my tickets on the day from the Dartmouth Steam Railway and River Boat Company ticket office. Their building is situated alongside the mainline level crossing, a 3 minute walk from Paignton train station. Come out of the main station, turn right and you’ll see the signs. 

Alternatively, if it’s peak season, weekend, must-do, or you just like to know you’ve got your tickets sorted then you can book online. For specific timings, an itinerary planner and to book your tickets head on over here.

CHOO CHOO – ALL ABOARD

So the first part of the adventure is on a steam train. I’ll go as far to say that I skip along the platform to said train (that is my level of joy) clutching my ticket with carriage and seat number.

As previously mentioned, the train consists of slam-door retro train carriages pulled by a steam engine. A step back in time. Lovely wood paneling and a tad more decadent carriages than you would normally experience on your 9-5 train commute.

Several steam engines are used, all of which have rather fabulous names. I’ve travelled on board with Braveheart (c. 1951), Hercules (a grandaddy c. 1920) and Goliath (c. 1924). For any train spotters out there, you can feast your eyes and get your notepads out for the dets on all of the locomotives and steam engines.

Once seated comfortably, the wonderfully nostalgic journey takes you alongside Paignton’s Goodrington Sands with its colourful beach huts, followed by the stunning scenery of Torbay. Broadsands Beach is next before you enter the beautiful woods of Long Wood. Travelling alongside the River Dart you come to the very picturesque harbour at Dartmouth and your final destination (well there is only one destination), Kingswear.

Goliath steam train coming into Dartmouth, Devon

FERRY

The ferry is all ready and waiting for you when you alight the train. You can’t miss it. Just follow to the end of the platform which takes you down a slight ramp and viola there it is. The crossing to Dartmouth is 5 minutes, if that, and the ferry runs every 15 minutes.

Depending on what time your boat cruise is (usually around 15:00 but varies due to tidal constraints), you’ll have time to wander around and partake in some refreshments.

Dartmouth itself oozes historic charm. You’re in for a treat if you love narrow winding streets, historic buildings, inviting cafes, independent shops, bars, and restaurants. It’s a small town but packs a punch. There is, of course, the vibrant maritime heritage too. Situated in a magnificent Georgian building, on a hill overlooking the River Dart, stands the Britannia Royal Naval College. Built in 1905 and designed by Sir Aston Webb, who also designed the fascade of Buckingham Palace and the main building of the V&A Museum. Tours are available to have a peek inside. Oh and did I mention that Dartmouth also has a castle? Yay.

BOAT CRUISE

Now comes my favourite part of the day – the 90 minute boat cruise. This is where I try to not hyperventilate and keel over. The cruise comes complete with interesting and fun commentary whilst you navigate around 9 miles of the River Dart. Making the most of the scenery you pass the aforementioned Britannia Royal Naval College and the pretty riverside villages of Stoke Gabriel and Dittisham. There’s also the Sharpham Estate, with its plunging wooden hillsides coming down to the water’s edge. Agatha Christie’s fabulous holiday home Greenway, now part of the National Trust, plays peek-a-boo up high between the trees. 

Not that it is the be-all and end-all you understand, but there is a bar onboard. Whoop. Oops, sorry – cue back to not the be-all and end-all. Note that its cash only (due to poor signal reception for taking card payments). So if you feel you might like something to quench your thirst for the 90 minutes while you take in the stunning views, ensure you’re suitably prepared. 

OPEN TOP BUS

Disembarking at Totnes you may have enough time to have a sneak peek depending on your bus connection time. Totnes with its bohemian atmosphere and free spirit, attracts creatives, artists, and free thinkers. Dating back to Saxon times it has an eclectic mix of shops, galleries, independent bookshops, and organic cafes. 

If you don’t have enough time, you can always console yourself with a purchase from the ice cream kiosk near the disembarkation point. 

Oh, the anticipation as you wait for the bus. I’ve been fortunate on both occasions to have the open top bus but as per the previous disclaimer, its appearance does depend on both the weather and operational requirements. Fingers crossed for you that the sun is shining and the open top is good to go. Either way, it’s a very pleasant bus journey through the countryside and back to Paignton train station. 

So have I tempted you with the Paignton Round Robin? Do let us know what you think in the comments! Looking for more day trip inspiration? Check out 7 Great Ways To Travel Around London (And See The Sights).

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47 TRAVEL QUOTES TO INSPIRE (AND INDUCE WANDERLUST)

prop plane view from plane window over turquoise sea

prop plane view from plane window over turquoise sea

I think you might notice by the design of this website that I love a quote! I find them great for a bit of kick-up-the-bum motivation, soul-searching reflection, and oh go on then, whisk me away inspiration. So without further ado, here’s my favourite travel quotes to inspire or inspirational travel quotes, if you prefer. Cue whistles, bells, and rapturous applause.

TRAVEL QUOTES TO INSPIRE

1. ‘Travelling solo doesn’t always mean you’re alone. Most often, it means you’re brave enough to explore the world on your own terms’. – Anonymous
2. ‘To Travel is to live’. – Hans Christian Andersen
3. ‘We travel not to escape life, but for life not to escape us’.  – Nweke Pascal
4. ‘The world is too big to stay in one place and life is too short to do just one thing’. – Anonymous
5. ‘You can’t control the past, but you can control where you go next’. – Kirsten Hubbard
6. ‘The best things in life are the people we love, the places we’ve been, and the memories we’ve made along the way’. – Anonymous
7. ‘Travelling is not something you’re good at. It’s something you do. Like breathing’. – Gayle Foreman
8. ‘Travel makes one modest. You see what a tiny place you occupy in the world’. – Gustava Flaubert
9. ‘Once a year, go someplace you’ve never been before’. – Dalai Lama
10. ‘Do not follow where the path may lead. Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail’. – Ralph Waldo Emerson
11. ‘We travel for romance, we travel for architecture, and we travel to be lost’. – Ray Bradbury
12. ‘You don’t have to be rich to travel well’. – Eugene Fodor
13. ‘Travelling – it leaves you speechless, then turns you into a storyteller’. – Ibn Battuta
14. ‘Travel is the only thing you buy that makes you richer’. – Anonymous
15. ‘The world is a book and those who do not travel read only one page’. – Saint Augustine
16. ‘Travelling is like flirting with life. It’s like saying, ‘I would stay and love you, but I have to go’. – Lisa St. Aubin de Teran

blue sky with white and grey cloud formations and travel quote (2)

17. ‘Life is short and the world is wide, the sooner you start exploring it, the better’. – Simon Raven
18. ‘Travel opens your heart, broadens your mind, and fills your life with stories to tell’. – Paula Bendfeldt
19. ‘Adventure awaits, go find it’. – Anonymous
20. ‘Travel is never a matter of money but of courage’. – Paulo Coelho
21. ‘Don’t listen to what they say, go see’. – Anonymous
22. ‘Wherever you go becomes a part of you somehow’. – Anita Desai
23. ‘When preparing to travel, lay out all your clothes and all your money. Then take half the clothes and twice the money’. – Susan Heller Anderson
24. ‘I would rather own a little and see the world, than own the world and see a little of it’. – Anonymous
25. ‘I haven’t been everywhere, but it’s on my list’.  – Susan Sontag
26. ‘Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness’. – Mark Twain
27. ‘The greatest adventure is what lies ahead’. – J.R.R. Tolkien
28. ‘You never really travel alone, the world is full of friends waiting to get to know you’. – Anonymous
29. ‘Travel teaches us to embrace life’. – Simon Reeve
30. ‘We travel, initially, to lose ourselves; and we travel, next to find ourselves’. – Pico Iver
31. ‘Life is a daring adventure or nothing at all’. – Hellen Keller
32. ‘Travelling is like investing in yourself’. – Anonymous
33. ‘For my part, I travel not to go anywhere but to go. I travel for travel’s sake. The great affair is to move’. – Robert Louis Stevenson
34. ‘A journey of a thousand miles must begin with a single step’.  – Lao Tzu
35. ‘You were born with wings, why prefer to crawl through life’. – Rumi
36. ‘Travel changes you. As you move through this life and this world you change things slightly, you leave marks behind, however small. And in return, life – and travel – leaves marks on you’. – Anthony Bourdain
37.Once the travel bug bites, there is no known antidote, and I know that I shall be happily infected until the end of my life’. – Michael Palin
38. ‘Travelling is more fun – hell, life is more fun – if you can treat it as a series of impulses’. – Bill Bryson

travelling is more fun bill bryson quote on image of sea and pier

39. ‘Not all those who wander are lost’. – J.R.R. Tolkein
40. ‘I read, I travel, I become’. – Derek Walcott
41. ‘It is good to have an end to journey toward; but it is the journey that matters, in the end’. – Ursula K. Le Guin
42. ‘We travel, some of us forever, to seek other states, other lives, other souls’. – Anais Nin
43. ‘Exploration is curiosity put into action’. – Don Walsh
44. ‘The world is full of magical things patiently waiting for our wits to grow sharper’. – Bertrand Russell
45. ‘Some beautiful paths can’t be discovered without getting lost’. – Erol Ozan
46.  ‘Travel far, travel wide, travel deep. Travel light, travel heavy, travel with all of your heart’. – Anonymous
47. ‘Now more than ever do I realise that I will never be content with a sedentary life, that I will always be haunted by thoughts of a sun-drenched elsewhere’. – Isabelle Eberhardt

 

So that’s my 47 travel quotes to inspire. Wanderlust induced? Chomping at the bit to get your bags packed? Head on over to The Best Solo Trips for Women. Back to them there inspirational travel quotes,  let us know your favourite in the comments!

 

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WHITBY DRACULA (AND SO MUCH MORE)

Whitby Abbey

Whitby Abbey

If you haven’t been to Whitby then you’re missing a real treat. Whitby Abbey’s gothic ruins are a dramatic focal point perched high on the hilltop overlooking the town. Below, the River Esk and the North Sea caress its shores. Captain Cook started his sailing career here and let’s not forget Whitby Dracula. So-called because Bram Stoker declared the Abbey ruins his inspiration for Dracula.

Whitby is a seaside and fishing town in North Yorkshire with an abundance of charming, quirky narrow alleyways and cobbled streets. The River Esk separates the two sides, with the east side of Whitby (where the Abbey is) dating back to 657 AD.

Grade I and Grade II listed buildings abound. It’s kind of architecture heaven with some of its quirky wonders.

THINGS TO DO IN WHITBY

Where to begin?

VISIT THE ABBEY

Doh. Yep, that’s right up at the top of the list. Now under the English Heritage banner, brace yourself for the 199 steps to get to the top of the East Cliff. Originally made of wood but replaced by Sneaton Stone in 1774. There are benches along the way where you can take a breather (unlike earlier inhabitants as the benches were originally used to rest coffins on!). Then the usage was for the exhausted pallbearers.

As the steps end, you enter the ancient graveyard of the Church of St Mary. Many of the older tombstones are faded but if you sleuth, you can find some with skull and crossbones. Apparently, Humpty Dumpty is buried there too. Not THE Humpty Dumpty but a Canon who happened to have the same name…

A few steps further on there’s the entrance to the Abbey ruins. There’s a fee to visit. You can, however see the top of the majestic remnants of the original 13th-century Benedictine Abbey above the wall. You might even see Whitby Dracula perched there. Ok, or not but hey, worth a look?

There’s even accommodation in the form of a YHA, housed in a stunning Grade I listed mansion alongside a cafe that is open to all. Another thirst-quenching location after your ascent is the Whitby Brewery. Take a sip and admire the view.

HEAD TO CAPTAIN COOK’S MUSEUM

Now I mentioned earlier that Captain James Cook started his sailing apprenticeship in Whitby. At that time he also lodged with his master, Captain John Walker, in Grape Lane. That 17th-century house is now home to the Captain Cook Museum. How fab is that? Real footsteps stuff. Once inside, apart from all the history and collections on display, including original letters from Cook, you’re also treated to a great view of the harbour.

Note that HMS Endeavour, the vessel Cook used on his most famous voyage to Australia and New Zealand was built in Whitby.

EAT WHITBY FISH AND CHIPS

As you would expect from being by the sea, there’s a plethora of Whitby fish and chips shops, touting fresh locally caught fish. Crab and lobster pots are also piled high along the quayside. You’ll see the queues for TrenchesHadley’s, Magpie Cafe, and Papas Fish and Chips. All are award-winning.

TAKE A STROLL ON THE PIER

Not your normal version of a seaside pier, I grant you. Whitby has two piers, the East Pier and the West Pier both have lighthouses at the end. The piers are positioned at the mouth of the harbour and make for a fine walk while yaffling your fish and chips.

Whitby West Pier and beach

WANDER ALONG THE BEACH

Whitby has a couple of beaches. Tate Hill Beach is the beach by the East Pier where you can while away the time fossil hunting. The other big sandy beach is by the West Pier and is known as both West Cliff Beach and Sands Beach.

For the latter, head past the amusements and funfair. You can’t miss it. When the tide’s out it’s about an hour’s walk past the colourful beach huts to Sandsend. Even if the tide is in there’s a flat path just above the beach.

I didn’t quite make it to Sandsend due to that Brit thing we all moan about. Groan. A sudden downpour. Soaked doesn’t cover it. On the plus side, brisk walking along the top path brought me back to the next must-visit spot.

ARRIVE AT ROYAL CRESCENT AND WHALE BONE ARCH

So into the Royal Crescent on the West Cliff, and back to Whitby Dracula. In 1890 Bram Stoker stayed at a guesthouse located at 6 Royal Crescent. From here he would set off exploring and gain inspiration from the stunning landscape viewed from up high.

Additionally, the West Cliff also houses the bronze statue Captain Cook Memorial and the much-photographed Whale Bone Arch. The latter is a nod to Whitby’s whaling industry. The bones were originally erected in 1853, although they’ve been replaced a few times. The latest version is a gift from Alaska in 2003. The originals reside in the Whitby Archives and Heritage Centre.

Whitby views from the West Cliff

FESTIVALS – A NOTE FOR YOUR DIARY

Whitby has an abundance of festivals. Some that sound the most fun include:

Pirate Festival – Ahoy me hearties. Time to don the Captain Jack Sparrow outfit. Go mad with the eyeliner. 01 -03 September.

The Whitby Regatta – Yacht and boat races, full on entertainment, fireworks and more heralds a jam-packed nautical weekend. 17 – 19 August.

The Dracula Society – not a festival per se, but (a) I love the name, and (b) they hold regular events including the annual Bram Stoker birthday dinner

Whitby Goth weekend takes place in both April and (no surprize) October. Grab that black eyeliner again and get the lippie version too…

Fish and Chip Festival – a celebration of everything that is Whitby fish and chips, with live cookery demos, and music. Nom, nom, nom.

WALKS, BOAT TRIPS AND CHOO CHOO

As befits a town with so much history, check out the Ghost Walks. Worn out from lots of walking? Head to the quay for coastal cruises be that day or sunset. There are also Pirate boat trips and a smaller version of the Endeavour that you can set sail with.

All aboard the choo choo train. Step back in time with a steam train adventure. If you’re a train lover, and planning other adventures, take a peek at Overnight Train Rides.

TREAT YOURSELF

Whether it’s nearly home time or you’ve just arrived, you’re on your holiday. You’ve got to treat yourself eh?

Whitby Jet is an intense black gemstone formed during the Jurassic era. Several shops along Church Street sell jewellery made from Whitby Jet. There’s also a Museum of Whitby Jet.

Jewellery not your thing, and hoping your luck might change? Well, with one of the Whitby Lucky Ducks, it just might. Pop one of these cute, handcrafted glass ducks in your bag and carry it around for good vibes.

SYNOPSIS

Whether it’s Whitby Dracula spotting, Abbey immersion, lovely walks, festival frolics, beach chilling, cute shops, eating and drinking establishments. You can have it all. Looking to head further afield? May I present The Best Solo Trips for Women.

Have you been or is it now on your to-do? Do let us know in the comments!

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OVERNIGHT TRAIN RIDES (YES PLEASE!)

train going through station

train going through station

Another fess up moment. I LOVE overnight train rides. I don’t know if it’s the rhythm of the train as it chugs along (ok, I might be going a bit Harry Potter dreamsville here) or if it’s knowing that I’ll wake up in a new location in the morning. Either way, it’s one of my favourite ways to travel.

ADVANTAGES

Firstly there’s the saving on time, stress, and hassle of getting to the airport. If you’re driving that’s added stress, cue rush hour or (deep joy) motorway navigating. Oh, and of course, there’s also the faffing about getting through security and juggling your max 100ml hand luggage bottles.

On the subject of luggage, you’re not so restricted on the number of bags and weight thereof.

Depending on the start time and duration of your journey, there’s the ever-changing scenery combined with witnessing the sunset and sunrise. For the latter, body clock. I can’t say it’s something I normally see… 

You can also be travelling to your next destination while sleeping. That’s always a yay in my books. Instead of spending money on a hotel room, you can snooze comfortably in your sleeper train compartment. 

Another advantage (which might not always seem like it at the time as you awake bleary-eyed) but you generally arrive early in the morning. That’s a big tick for making the most of the day to head out and go exploring.

Lastly and most definitely not least, it’s great for the planet. You can reduce your carbon footprint as train travel produces far fewer emissions than travelling by plane or car.

plane and carbon footprint

OVERNIGHT TRAIN RIDES TO TEMPT YOU

If you want to have a taster, and not go on a mega-train marathon, you could check out if there are any overnight train rides locally. By locally I mean within your country and that take perhaps 8 – 10 hours.

I’ve taken the sleeper train between London Euston and Glasgow which was great. Departure time is late evening with a journey time of around 7.5 hours. Now with shiny new trains and Glencraft mattresses (handcrafted no less) to give you the ultimate Zzz’s. Accommodation choices comprise of double with an en-suite, club (twin) en-suite, classic (twin or single with wash basin), and seat with lockable storage. On the food front, head to the Club Car (priority access given to Club Room or Caledonian Double guests) but there’s also room service. The Caledonian Sleeper Train destinations include Aberdeen, Edinburgh, Fort William, Inverness, and of course, Glasgow.

If you find you loved the sleeper experience so much and can’t wait to experience more, once in Scotland there’s the Belmond Royal Scotsman. This would certainly come under the header luxury overnight train rides. Hop aboard and immerse yourself in the splendour. Aside from the sumptuous cabins to add a unique touch and further indulge your senses, there’s also a Spa Car and an Observation Car with an open-air veranda.

Fine dining takes place in mahogany-panelled restaurant cars. The dining carriages even have great names, Raven and Swift. Journeys from 2 nights to 7 nights include, but are not limited to, Taste of the Highlands, scenic wonders and Clans, Castles and Isles. All departures are from Edinburgh.

Nicknamed the Cornish Riviera due to the abundance of pristine beaches along its coastline (22 according to the beach guide), it’s no surprize that the sleeper train that transports you to Cornwall is called The Night Riviera.

The train departs from London Paddington and arrives in Penzance around 8-9 hours later. Duration depends on whether you travel during the week or on a Sunday. There’s also an onboard lounge bar for snacks and refreshments for your journey.

Additionally, if you book a cabin you also have access to the GWR First Class lounges (and showers) at Paddington, Penzance, and Truro. Complimentary breakfast included for those in a cabin.

FURTHER AFIELD

A recent BBC News report looked into ‘Why sleeper trains are being revived across Europe‘. Feedback from train aficionados included ‘it’s so much fun’; and ‘it’s adventurous, romantic, and efficient’. Alongside the feel-good of the reduced carbon footprint, it’s ‘putting the joy back into travel’.

colourful train at the platform

One overnight train ride that’s definitely on my to-do list is the Milan to Palermo Sicily sleeper train which also includes a ferry ride. A very unique ferry ride as the train separates into sections and goes aboard the ferry! The night train service (Intercity Notte), operated by Trenitalia, takes between 20 – 22 hours. There’s no dining car so take plenty of tuck with you. Information on Intercity Notte and the route can be found here.

OBB (Austrian Railways) in conjunction with other train partners operates NightJet and EuroNight Trains. Travelling overnight to over 25 European cities gives you plenty of choice for overnight train rides. Accommodation comes in three categories, sleeper cabin, a couchette, and a seating carriage.

Due to start in 2023 are the new NightJet trains with the first routes showcasing the new design commencing in Italy. As well as being ultra-modern, another of the new features include mini cabins for solo travellers. Yay. 

Not sure about travelling solo? Check out Safety Tips For Women Travelling Alone.

Across the pond, if you’re heading to the US of A or indeed reside in the USA, of course, there’s Amtrak. I’m loving their strapline and energy stats:

MAKE ALL ROADS LESS TRAVELED:

Amtrak is 47 percent more energy efficient than traveling by car and 33 percent more energy efficient than domestic air travel.

Their selection of overnight train journeys feels like the train travel equivalent of an as-much-as-you-can-eat buffet. I’m particularly loving the sound of the California Zephyr, where you start your journey in Chicago and travel via the Rockies and snow-capped Sierra Nevadas through to California. A tad over 51 hours, it’s a train lovers dream.

OVERNIGHT TRAIN RIDES – THE FUTURE

Quoting a ‘combination of modern sustainability and glorious Roaring 20’s charm‘ alongside being ‘a train, a hotel, a restaurant, and an app which connects Europe and allows us to travel at will’, Adrien Aumont and Romain Payet have a vision.

Co-Founder of Midnight Trains, Adrien tells the story that vision came to him during a dinner in Athens. ‘From that moment, I knew I had fallen in love‘.

Due to launch from their hub in Paris in 2024, you too can fall in love. Billed as a ‘hotel on rails’, with on-demand films, superior sleeping quarters; single, double, or a 4-bed room to share with friends or family (as opposed to random strangers). For the foodies, there are seasonable products to enjoy as table service or takeaway. And for those that aren’t fussed about food, you can sprint to the wine and cocktail bar. Multiple destinations are planned.

Tempted? Any overnight train rides that have caught your attention? Do let us know in the comments!

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SAFETY TIPS FOR WOMEN TRAVELLING ALONE

safe and risky signposts

safe and risky signposts

A friend once remarked ‘When I think about solo travel, I always think about what could go wrong’. Travelling alone, through choice or circumstance, is one of the most empowering things you can do. However, as a lone female traveller there’s also personal safety to throw into the mix. So without further ado, here are my safety tips for women travelling alone.

PRE-TRAVEL RESEARCH

Wherever you decide to go and explore, be thorough with your research. Check out your local travel advice site, for the UK it’s the Foreign and Commonwealth Office. Are there any political unrest situations or other activities occurring? Are there frequent scams you need to be aware of? Come on down ‘can I carry your bags?’. Whoosh, before you know it your bags and helper are a speck on the horizon. Check reviews, forums, guidebooks, and websites like the Lonely Planet, Rough Guides, or Fodor’s.

PRE-TRAVEL INSURANCE AND HEALTH CHECKS

Take out a comprehensive travel insurance policy and read the dets! Important things to note include the number of days that your trip is covered for. It’s as much use as a chocolate teapot (as my nan would say) if you’re off adventuring for 90 days but your policy only covers you for 30 days. Are you an adrenaline junkie or might you be tempted? Not all policies include bungee jumping, sky diving, zip wires, and wild water rafting as a given. Check out Insure and Go and LV.

At least 8 weeks in advance look into and obtain all the necessary vaccinations for your trip. If you’ve previously been vaccinated, make sure that your jabs are up to date. Also, check if your GP practice is signed up to provide free NHS vaccinations for travel. 

globe being vaccinated

ACCOMMODATION

For want of sounding obvious, check the reviews of the accommodation you are looking to book. If it’s a bit more ‘rustic’ it doesn’t hurt to pack a door stopper that you can wedge under your bedroom door. Once there make sure you take or write a card with your accommodation address to carry with you.

LOCAL LAWS AND CUSTOMS

Do abide by the local laws and customs of the country that you’re visiting and dress to blend in. It might be that your shoulders should be covered (especially in religious buildings) or that shorts and tight clothing aren’t appropriate. At home you have a habit of ruffling a friend’s hair but in Fiji, the head is considered sacred so is definitely not to be touched. I also recall visiting a Fijian village where hat wearing was a no-no and indeed viewed as insulting. Only the Chief is allowed to wear a hat. 

GETTING LOST

Not only only safety tips for women. It’s bound to happen but depending on where you are, it’s not always a good idea to look squinty and perplexed with your arms aloft signalling lost whilst standing on a street corner. Sydney is very different to say San Jose, Costa Rica. Look confident and pop into a local shop or restaurant for help on getting back on track.

MAKING THAT CALL

Take care when using your phone, particularly late at night or indeed any time of the day if you’re in remote or deserted locations. Be that a beach or in town. If you’re had a few drinks as well, you’re distracted and not fully aware of what is going on around you. Don’t do it. Make that phone call somewhere safe inside.

While we’re on the subject of phones, add local emergency numbers to your contacts. It’s unlikely that you’ll need them but like a good Girl Guide it’s best to be prepared.

ALCOHOL

Now it’s easy to get caught up in the spirit (excuse the pun) of an occasion. Hey my friends will vouch that I can indulge as much as the next person. BUT. When you’re in a different location with newbie travel mates, please don’t overdo it. Also a given is to keep an eye on your drinks at all times.

alcohol shots lined up in a bar

STRANGER DANGER

They might be your knight in shining armour but then again they might not. However tempted you are by their offer to get you home safely, make sure you have the number of a local taxi firm, preferably as recommended by your accommodation. Don’t just get into a random car. As for ‘home’, you don’t need to tell strangers where you’re staying. Be vague or say somewhere else.

OFF THE BEATEN TRACK

Yes, it’s great to go exploring but do take advice on trails from your accommodation or locals. As much as you may love hiking, I wouldn’t recommend that you head off solo on remote walking trails. There’s bound to be day trips to popular hikes where you can walk with others. If you’re determined to go it alone, then let someone know where you’re going.

VALUABLES

Check your accommodation safe to stash valuables. You don’t need to carry everything around with you. An alternative is to purchase a money belt. Not the sexiest of items I grant you but great for your money and passport plus you can wear it under your clothes.

As a deterrent to pickpockets, if you have a small backpack wear it on your front. Avoid padlocks offered by your accommodation, instead pop some in with your packing. Aside from lockers, I’ve used mine before for beach hut accommodation.

In a nutshell, don’t pack anything that you can’t afford to lose or that has sentimental value. That way you can stay in your zen zone if some of your belongings disappear.

TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS

Most importantly, my final safety tips for women – if it doesn’t feel good then it probably isn’t. Is the environment you’re in making you nervous or anxious? Heck, don’t worry about being rude. It’s important to feel at ease and safe. Just trust your instincts and leave pronto.

Feel like you’re ready to take on the world? Head on over to The Best Solo Trips for Women to get inspiration and book your next adventure.

What are your safety tips for women? Do let us know in the comments!

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7 GREAT WAYS TO TRAVEL AROUND LONDON (AND SEE THE SIGHTS)

London Eye and Houses of Parliament London

London Eye and Houses of Parliament London

Planes, Trains and Automobiles. Well, not quite. Aside from hopping on the tube or the sightseeing bus, what are some other great ways to travel around London?

Well I’m glad you asked. Note also that the tube might not be so fab if it’s rush hour and you’ve got your nose in the vicinity of an armpit. One that’s generally yours I hasten to add.

To make the best use of your time, travel in comfort and save money too, here’s what I recommend.

1. TRAINS

Travelling by train into and around London sounds kind of obvious, but stick with me. If you can nab someone to travel with you, then you can get an array of 2 for 1 offers courtesy of National Rail’s Days Out Guide. Top tourist attractions included. Come on down, London EyeWestminster Abbey, Madame Tussauds, and Tower Bridge, to name a few.

To qualify for the offers here’s a list of valid ticket types (for example, Oyster card and Heathrow Express are no-no’s).

Got a particular attraction in mind? There’s a search and dropdown menu including attraction type, with currently 147 attractions up for grabs in London. Also included are exhibitions, concerts, events, food and drink offers, and lots more.

Register and follow the easy-peasy instructions on how to claim your offer (top right) to get your vouchers.

Not heading to London yet? 2 for 1 also applies to Birmingham, BlackpoolBrighton, LiverpoolManchester, Southend, Stratford-upon-Avon, and Scotland.

2. BOATS

Escape the hustle and bustle of the streets, and the tube squeeze, to travel around London by heading onto the water. As well as guided tours you can also opt for the do-it-yourself variety by jumping aboard the river bus boats. No commentary is included.

The Thames Clipper, now partnered and rebranded as the Uber Boat by Thames Clipper, offers a fabulous service on its high-speed fuel-efficient catamarans.

Big windows, guaranteed comfy seats (inside or out). An onboard cafe bar serving snacks and soft and alcoholic beverages adds to the laid-back way to view the sights. It’s a hop-on, hop-off service operating 7 days a week along 24 pier stops on the Thames.

Savings are to be made (up to 22%) by either using a contactless or Oyster card, booking online, or via the app.

If you prefer a guided tour Evergreen is offering 2 for 1 on city cruises sightseeing.

London Eye and river boats London

3. LIFTS AKA ELEVATORS

Hey, hey, it’s still a form of travel. These lifts are not only within some fab landmarks but they also transport you to some great views of London.

Jump on said lift at The Shard and get ready for some ear-popping. That’ll be due to the 6 metres per second whizz – cue Level 1 to Level 68 in sixty seconds.

The Shard, standing at a height of 309.6 metres (1,016 ft), contains 11,000 panels of glass (which laid out would cover 8 football pitches). 

Located inside are offices, residential apartments, a hotel, and a variety of restaurants and bars. The viewing platforms, the highest in London, are on the 69th and 72nd floors. The latter of which is an open sky deck where you can embrace the elements and sounds of the city.

Tickets from £28 with best prices when you book 4 or more days in advance. 

However, you could also hop out at the 32nd floor to the lounge bar and restaurant Oblix. It might not be as high as the viewing platforms but still provides pretty spectacular views. The entrance is marked ‘Restaurants’ and is the 3rd entrance of the Shangri-La hotel. Treat yourself to a cocktail with your saved entrance fee and spot the Walkie Talkie, Cheesegrater, and Gherkin from afar. Dress code does apply so leave the ripped jeans, gym trainers, flip flops, baseball caps, and sportswear at home.

Another viewing goodie is to scoot over to the Sky Garden. Nestled within 3 floors of the Walkie Talkie and billed as London’s highest public garden. Admittedly at 160 m (525 ft) high, it might not be as lofty as the Shard but still gives great views in a beautiful setting. Take advantage of free access on weekdays 10 am to 6pm and on weekends from 11am to 9pm. At times and if space permits, walk in’s, (must show photographic ID and not after 5pm on weekdays), are accepted. I would, however, recommend that you book a free access ticket. Tickets have a date and timestamp and are valid for an hour.

4. CABLE CAR

Cool with heights? Then another way to travel around London is to hop aboard the IFS Cloud Cable Car, which travels around 90m (295 ft) above the River Thames. Take a 10-minute jaunt between Greenwich Peninsula and Royal Docks, to get beautiful views of London’s skyline, the Thames, and the O2.

Nighttime and sunset trips are also on offer. For more info head on over here.

5. WALKING

I love travelling on foot. Eco-friendly, fresh air, see all the nooks and crannies whilst at the same time ramping up your 10,000 steps a day. Win-win.

There’s a variety of walking companies but my fav is London Walks. It also has the accolade of being the oldest walking company in the world. No need to pay in advance just pre-book your walk and you’re good to go.

They offer over 500 guided walks around London, each lasting around 2 hours. Operating morning, afternoon, or evening, come rain or shine. Jack the Ripper, Ghost Walks, Pub Walks, Classic London and Village London, are just some of the most popular tours.

Guides are from all walks of life and include thespians, a criminal defence lawyer, a composer, and a museum curator. They know London and will draw you in with their insider stories and engaging delivery.

6. BIKE

Travel around London on two wheels? Not just any old two wheels mind you, these are Brit bikes at their best. Vintage (and rather cute) Pashley bicycles, with the added option of popping a wicker basket on the front to make them even cuter. A wee fact, Pashley Cycles founded in 1926, is also England’s longest established bicycle manufacturer.

Tally-Ho bikes and Houses of Parliament London

With a company name like Tally Ho, your passionate, fun, and informative tour guides for this adventure fit the bill. Plus they’re normally decked in some kind of hat attire. You too have the option of a helmet or a tweed cap. Go you.

Did I mention that their 3.5 hour, London Landmarks and Secret Gems bike tour also includes a stop at a 399 year old pub for refreshments?

For those Gin lovers, check out their London Gin Safari.

7.  LONDON DUCK TOURS

Yep, you read that correctly. If you want to combine road with water, then the amphibious London Duck Tours is the way to go. The Ducks, originally used in the Second World War, have been completely rebuilt and modified to comply with strict safety regulations. Due to losing access to their slipway, tours are on hold at the moment but there’s an update due on events for this year.

So there you have it, my 7 great ways to travel around London. If you’re itching to jump on a plane and head further afield, may I suggest The Best Solo Trips for Women.

Right, I’m thinking that my favourite way to travel around London is on one of those cute Pashley bicycles. How about you?

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THE BEST SOLO TRIPS FOR WOMEN

woman in a hat at sunset

solo woman in hat at sunset

Looking for the best solo trips for women? Whether you’re a seasoned female solo traveller or a newbie wanting to dip your perfectly painted toes in, a small group travel trip could be just the answer you’re looking for.

A chance to explore, be with like-minded adventurous souls, and, phew, have the planning done for you. So here’s my take on the best solo trips for women (including women only tours) that can inspire and fulfil your wanderlust.

EASTERN EUROPE

Did you know that Slovenia has the accolade of making National Geographic’s list of ‘Best of the World 2023’ and was also declared ‘Best in Travel 2022’ by Lonely Planet? Double whammy.

What can I say? Jaw-dropping beauty, friendly locals, and a foodie paradise.

Wanting to take you to ‘explore places that most people will never see’, Juliana Dever of Cleverdeverwhereever knows exactly how to take you there. Literally, as she is your personal host and will be accompanying you, alongside your guide, Tina, a born and bred Slovenian.

Experience Slovenia like a local – yes please.  Go off the beaten track – you betcha. Ditch the same old, same old, recited in well thumbed guidebooks – all hail.

Gelato with fresh olive oil topping anyone?

Using her line ‘A fairy tale, a Michelin Chef, and pristine nature walk into a bar…’ you get the drift on why Slovenia has been heaped such praise by good ole Nat Geo and Lonely Planet.

To experience it first hand, head on over to Slovenia, Ancient Rome to the Adriatic : 10 day cultural and foodie immersion.

Be in the know and get on the list to be notified of her next Poland tour too.

Group size is 8- 12 plus your host Juliana. 95% of guests are solo travellers and most are female. Private room options are also available for an additional supplement.

BELLA ITALIA

Another country making National Geographic’s Best of the World 2023 list is Italy. With its food, architecture, and breathtaking scenery, it’s easy to see why.

Doing things differently is ITALIAN FIX founded by the vivacious Bianca Gignac who met (and subsequently married) Alessandro, the week before she was due to fly back home. Not the marrying part, I hasten to add, there’s whirlwind and there’s whirlwind. Therein followed a relocation to Italy and also a falling in love with the nuances and energy of Bella Italia.

Who doesn’t want to get the feel of what it’s like to be a local?

An authentic immersion, so you experience rather than just pass through. One day you might be all glitzed up, gliding into a fancy pantsy award-winning restaurant. The next yaffling a takeout at the market, in your comfy exploring clothes and flats. Hell yeah. Being like a local is where it’s at.

Moreover utilising purposeful travel that supports smaller, family-run businesses and producers, from relationships that have been nurtured and grown. What’s not to love?

Manarola Cinque Terre Italy

Choose from ‘women only’ or ‘all adults welcome’ tours:

Cinque Terre

Puglia and Amalfi Coast

The Italian and French Riveras

Tuscany

The Islands of Amalfi

Sicily

Group size is a maximum of 14-16 depending on the tour, with a fair chunk of guests who are solo travellers. Private room options are also available for an additional supplement.

IT’S A WONDERFUL WORLD

And. There’s an awful lot of it to explore. Woohoo.

The following companies offer worldwide destinations for small inclusive groups of women, carrying on the hassle-free way to travel and my best solo trips for women list.

Responsible Travel founded in 2001, is another force for good. Thus all tours are closely vetted to support both local communities and nature. Their purpose to ‘inspire travellers to discover our beautiful and fragile planet; act urgently to restore nature and reduce carbon whilst being honest about our limitations and our need to be more inclusive’.

Women only holidays range from exploring cultural destinations such as Morocco (8 days), Cuba (8 days), and Romania (8 days), to name but a few.

Other goodies include a Safari in Tanzania and empowerment trips to Cape Verde or Mauritius. Furthermore, they offer a variety of walking, cycling, and kayaking holidays. Check out their list of women only tours.

Just a teeny handful (I’ve got small hands ok?) of the amazing adventures Wild Women Expeditions have available, come on down Azores Horses Whales and Volcanoes TourThe Amazon to Machu Picchu and India Jungles and Jewels Adventure. There’s a variety of hiking adventures too. You can see their list of expeditions via their adventure month view calendar here

As a wild woman, you decide how wild you want to be. You might be sharing a room or a tent depending on how adventurous you are. Single rooms (and tents should you be that super mcduper adventurer, hmm Yellowstone), are available at an additional charge.

Another thing to note is each trip has ‘the experience’ ‘is this trip right for me’ info link. This will show things such as adventure level, hiking level, and duration (if included). As for horse riding, not only the standard required but also the maximum weight for the horse! Go easy on the pies…

The last time I went horse riding I had a horse with the temperament of Maximus out of Tangled. Fess up my hair was a tangled mess by the end of it too as I held on for dear life whilst matey boy was giving it large.

Group size between 6-14 women, depending on trip destination, with an average group size of 8. A few exceptions are water experiences – Galapagos Yacht Adventure (up to 16 women), and some small-ship expeditions where you would be part of a bigger passenger group e.g  40 Wild Women on a 198 passenger boat.

Gutsy Girls offers adventure daysweekend retreats, and holidays. Their mission is to connect like-minded women through nature, sports, and adventure.

woman in snow looking up at mountain

As an approximation, most ‘Gutsy Girls guests are 24-60 years old, with around 60% in their 30s-40s’.

Additionally, I would also add that Gutsy aka ‘having or showing courage, determination, and spirit’ defies any age. Let’s face it, once you’ve learned to surf, mastered snowshoeing, and hiked peaks for stunning views you’ll feel like a carefree teenager again.

Trips include cross-country skiing and yoga combo’s in Norway (including beginner level); coastal hiking in Sardinia and more. Check out their holiday itineraries here

Wanting to freewheel it and head out on your own? Have a peek at Mojacar Almeria – how to get there and what to do

Well here endeth my list of the best solo trips for women. Thinking of heading out solo? Which trips have you added to your ‘to-do’? Do share and let us know what you think in the comments!

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MOJACAR ALMERIA – HOW TO GET THERE AND WHAT TO DO

 

Mojacar Almeria beach

If you’ve heard of Mojacar Almeria it might be from a friend or perhaps it was on an episode of a Place in The Sun. Heck, you might never have heard of it before. I certainly hadn’t before my mate moved there.

To be fair, she hadn’t heard of it either and it was only when a local took her there that she fell in love. Not with the local, he was kicked into touch, but Mojacar ooh na na…

Having been there a few times myself now, sans man, here’s my take on why you should pay Mojacar Almeria a visit:

Mojacar Weather

Before you rush to book your flights/accommodation/holiday to Spain, here’s the average monthly temperature chart because doesn’t everyone like checking the weather first?

Synopsis – winter sun, spring sun, summer sun, crazy hot August, autumn sun. Rainfall occurring in autumn and winter.

Nearest Airport to Mojacar

The nearest airport to Mojacar is Almeira, which is just over an hour away. Murcia and Alicante aren’t too far behind at around 2 hrs – 2 hrs 30, respectively.

I’ve done the Almeria and Alicante jaunt and have hooked up with the rather fabulous Exclusive Airport Shuttles for my transfers. Almeria has several shuttles that can link up with your flight at different times of the day. For Alicante, the service only operates once a day (normally around midday) so you might need to overnight at Alicante. Another option is a pick up from Murcia.

Each way fares are ¢19.99 for Almeria, ¢32.99 for Alicante, and ¢32.99 for Murcia.

There’s a handy section ‘shuttle stops’ across the top of their menu bar, where they have pictures of each of their, hmm, shuttle stops. Probably more useful for your return journey but thought I would give you the heads up to save dashing from one shuttle stop to the next.

Taxi fares (each way) range from around ¢100 from Almeria and ¢260 from Alicante.

So back to Mojacar, pronounced Mo-HA-car, location wise it hugs the south east coast of Spain and resides in the province of Almeria. Hence Mojacar Almeria. It has two distinct areas, the Pueblo (old town) and the Playa (beach).

Mojacar Pueblo – being with the locals

Mojacar Pueblo, also known as old town Mojacar, is perched up high in the hills, 175 meters above sea level. It looks like a rather fabulous multi-layer wedding cake. Gorgeous white-washed buildings in cobbled and winding narrow streets reflect its Moorish history. Suffice to say it’s very pretty.

Mojacar Pueblo Almeria

I love ambling around and indeed walking there. It’s a 30 minute hike from the Parque Commercial (shopping centre). All uphill but on pavement so you’re not wading through undergrowth to get there.

You can just see the Pueblo peeking out in the distance in the image below. There are other routes you can take that run parallel to the sea, but this is the easiest to pinpoint and describe.

If you start to overheat and feel you need mouth-to-mouth, there’s a lift that can take you that last part to the top.

If being a sweaty betty isn’t your thing, then for ¢1.20 or thereabouts, you can also hop on the bus.

Once you’ve got your breath back or skipped off the bus, some highlights to check out:

1. Plaza Nueva

Plaza Nueva, talking of breath, this one is breathtaking and otherwise known as the viewing platform. A great place to grab a drink, take in the view and enjoy the hustle and bustle or solitude, depending on when you plan your visit.

2.Fuente Publica de Mojacar

Fuente Publica de Mojacar is a historic fountain landmark of the old town. A picturesque setting to grab your water bottle and be like the locals with a fill up of fresh spring water. Additionally, a plaque commemorates the 1488 request for a peaceful surrender of the town by the Catholic Monarchs. A request that, allegedly due to heartfelt words by the Mayor Alávez, they did not have to fulfil.

3. Local shops

Local shops, alongside the tourist merchandise shops, Indalo Man a plenty. Azar Creative is my favourite with beautiful handmade garments, bags, and craft goods. Note check opening times as shops tend to close between 14.00 – 17:00.

4. Restaurants and Bars

There’s a selection of restaurants and bars but Ristorante Pizzeria Napoli, I concur not very Spanish, has the best view from its terrace, in my humble. I have it on good authority that the goats cheese salad is to die for. For a warm and friendly welcome, head to Bar La Sarten situated behind Iglesia de Santa María.

Mojacar Playa – take me to the beach

The Playa (Mojacar beach) consists of 17 km of coves and sandy beaches and is sandwiched between Garrucha and Carboneras.

The beach area is lovely with sunbeds and parasols set up in the summer, albeit for a daily charge. Alternatively, you can plonk yourself down on a towel or BYO sunbed and parasol if gifted by your accommodation or kind host.

No high rises are allowed, the most I believe are three-storey and not a Mcdonald’s or alike to be seen. Hip Hooray. Apparently, both of these stipulations are at the bequest of the local mayor. Big up that mayor.

Mojacar Playa Almeira

Mojacar Almeria – nightlife and restaurants

It’s a very different vibe from the Pueblo. This is live music central, and although you can experience some live music in the Pueblo, it’s not as prolific as it is along the Playa.

Great live music venues in Mojacar Playa include Ankara, Yamaya, Maui Beach, and Valery. Be aware that some do close end of September/beginning of October, especially if they are beach bars.

Rest assured that there are still venues that are open in autumn and winter with live music all year. Check out https://mojacarbands.net/ for gigs in and around Mojacar. 

As well as the live music scene, which can also include afternoon gigs, there’s a choice of nightclubs, restaurants, and bars. Note, the same with bars, that the nightclub scene is buzzier in the summer with some of the clubs closing for the winter. 

One club, Mandala Beach, even includes a swimming pool in the middle. Although I’m not sure how that works when you’re wearing your high heels, and balancing cocktails. Great places to visit along the Playa also include Lua, Dolce Vita, Playa Juana, Bocaina Beach Club and Vista Del Mar.

Martin Morales is very popular with the Spanish so you know it’s a good place to eat. Neptuno is the best fish restaurant in Mojacar so I suggest you head there for your paella and anything fishy. My absolute favourite place to eat is La Parata. My mouth is salivating just thinking about their food. Oops TMI? Moving on, it’s a 5 min drive up the hill from the seafront. If you don’t have a car, grab a drink in Cheers or La Gaviota and ask them to call you a taxi.  

On a more sedate note, if you love a quiz, ooh ooh me too,  *waves hands in the air*, check out Gure-Toki Taberna and Mimi’s Bar. Both of these are at the top end of the Playa near Hotel Continental

Not sure if you could head to a music bar or a quiz on your own? Head on over to How To Travel Solo If You’re Shy And An Introvert

FAQ

Is Mojacar a good place to visit in the winter?

Yes, definitely. Let’s be honest, the temperatures are much higher than the UK. Winter sun – tick, although it can get chilly at night. Despite some places being closed for winter, there’s still plenty open.

What’s Mojacar famous for?

Aside from the lovely beaches, and stunningly pretty Pueblo, it would have to be the Indalo Man. You will see him everywhere. I mean e-v-e-r-y-w-h-e-r-e. Scroll back to the pathway image. Voila, there he is, in the railings. A symbol of good luck, more so if gifted to you. His image dates back to cave paintings circa 4,500 years ago.

Can I see Flamenco in Mojacar?

Yes, you can. I would suggest checking out a show timetable for El Pimiento in the Pueblo, a bar restaurant with a terrace and authentic Flamenco shows. Dolce Vita is also known to host Flamenco shows too.

Are there lots of expats in Mojacar?

Yes, Mojacar does have a thriving expat community. Figures from a few years ago estimated around 50% of the population are expats. The Mojacar forum on facebook has over 21,000 members sharing experiences and answering Q’s about life in Mojacar.

Finally and most importantly don’t forget to check out the entry requirements for travelling to Spain.

Have you been to Mojacar Almeria? Do let us know in the comments!

 

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HOW TO TRAVEL SOLO IF YOU’RE SHY AND AN INTROVERT

introvert traveller

introvert traveller

You certainly don’t have to be all a-singing and a-dancing to travel solo. I’m actually quite shy when I meet new people.

According to psychologist Jonathan Cheek, there are 4 kinds of introvert. The social, the thinking, the anxious and the restrained. Taking the first letter of each, he named his research model STAR.

SOCIAL

The social introvert has a preference for solitude with a good book but is happy to attend small gatherings as opposed to large group meet ups.

THINKING

The thinking introvert is self reflective and thoughtful.

ANXIOUS

The anxious introvert feels anxious and awkward in social situations which can also trigger lack of self confidence issues.

RESTRAINED

The restrained introvert counts to 10 before they think . Ok that might be a bit too literal but hey they think before they speak or take action. Being restrained they might not be the first to volunteer or leap into something either.

Either way, if you’re an introvert it’s great if you go travelling solo. Why? You’re happy with your own company and for some alone time. The local cafe for a drink. To the beach or park to read or to the cinema to immerse yourself in some big screen action.

Back to restrained leaping. You don’t need to leap on a plane, boat or train and head abroad for your first solo outing. Oh no siree.

It could be that you dip your toes in by booking a hotel for a solo weekend away or join a small group mini tour close to home.

As great as it is to meet other travellers, local or international, as an introvert, you need to

BE PREPARED

May I suggest …

Load up your kindle or a.n.other reading device with your favourite authors or, you know, those books you’ve been meaning to read.

kindle reading

Love the feel of a paperback? Me too. Squeeze a book or two in with your packing. If it’s a mini trip that should do you, unless of course it’s such a page turner that you look like Penelope the Panda in the morning. Either way, there’s bound to be the opportunity of swapsies along the way.

Belong to a movie subscription service? Come on down Apple TV, Prime, Sky et al. Get those movies downloaded pronto. Great for those long journeys as well as hotel room chilling.

Make sure you have your listening device of choice, raring to go with your music and podcasts. May I also recommend noise-cancelling headphones.

So now you’re ready to hit the road.

SOME SUGGESTIONS

You could ease yourself in gently and start with a small group tour. Whether you are looking at specific destinations or certain passions, be it opera in Italy or photography with National Geographic, sleuth to find something that ticks all your boxes.

As for small adventure tours, I have heard great things about Intrepid and Explore (average group size 10 and 12 respectively).

Decision criteria? Well as, dare I say, the norm of reviews, age range and group size, don’t forget the importance of asking how much free time you have. That’s your zen and recharge space. Ommm.

There’s generally always an option to have your own room for a supplement.

Looking for something that’s a bit more of a treat and hidden gems a-plenty? Italian Fix specializes in the Cinque Terre and Sicily. They provide the coolest private experiences, be it outdoor dining, private boat excursions or visits to private homes. Oh yes please. Who doesn’t like a peek at a private home? They also offer a choice of women only tours.

ACCOMMODATION

If a group, will-you-or-won’t-you-get-on, tour really isn’t your thing, then have a look at exploring and travelling solo combined with a hotel or Airbnb.

For the latter you could rent the entire accommodation or accommodation with the host in residence. Be that a private room, annex or separate dwelling at the end of the garden.

If opting for accommodation that includes the host in residence, then you’re not stuck out somewhere on your own. Hey there’s introvert and introvert, plus there’s exploring to be done.

By having a local in situ there’s insight and potential (small scale) socializing to be had. You can always make your excuses and retreat to your abode for updating your travel journal if you’re not feeling chatty.

If you want to give hostels a try, it’s a great way to meet fellow travellers in a relaxed environment, be that in the kitchen making a meal or chilling in the lounge area reading a book.

Single rooms or doubles for sole occupancy are up for grabs. YHA hostels generally have a good age range thus also avoiding staying in party central.

Generator Hostels are design-led hostels offering affordable luxury rooms for travellers and locals of Europe’s coolest cities. Current cool city locations are Amsterdam, Barcelona, Berlin, Copenhagen, Dublin, Hamburg, London, Rome, Stockholm, Venice, Paris and Washington D.C.

Opt for your own room for your personal space and continued zen.

DAY TRIPS

Whatever your accommodation, it’s good to book a day trip here or there.

It might just be group transport to get you to a ‘must see’ attraction that is off the beaten track. Then it’s the best of both worlds. Company and hassle free transport and time alone to explore once you’re there. Or perhaps it’s with a local guide sharing their knowledge with a small group.

On the flip side, if you find yourself on organised tour after tour then look into renting a driver for the day and creating your own itinerary. Check with your accommodation for regulated and recommended drivers. Depending on your location, it doesn’t have to be a budget busting experience.

EXPLORING WITHOUT OVERWHELM

Time Out is a great resource for things to do and what’s happening in cities worldwide. Meetup is a great too for social and special interest events. Most cities also offer walking tours too. Dip in and out of conversation as you wish, whilst seeing the sights at a leisurely pace. Perfect.

And. Don’t forget a travel guide book! Although there’s so much information online, once you’re out and about, you can’t beat having a ‘proper’ for want of a better term, book with you to refer to without navigating the size of your phone screen. My personal favourite is Lonely Planet but check out Rough Guides and Frommer’s to name but a few.

Are you an introvert solo traveller? Do let us know in the comments!

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